Impulse Control Disorder

Overview

Impulse control disorders (ICDs) are a group of mental health conditions characterized by difficulty controlling impulses or urges, often leading to actions that are harmful to oneself or others. People with an impulse control disorder act on intense urges without fully considering the consequences, which can result in behaviors like sudden aggression, destruction of property, stealing, or other rule-breaking acts. These actions are typically preceded by a mounting sense of tension and excitement and followed by feelings of relief – and sometimes guilt or remorse – once the impulsive act is completed. In other words, the individual often knows the behavior is inappropriate but feels unable to resist the urge in the moment, which can lead to significant personal, legal, and social problems.

Signs & Symptoms

  • Frequent impulsive anger outbursts or episodes of extreme temper, where the person lashes out verbally or physically over relatively minor provocations.
  • Aggressive or reckless behaviors that are out of proportion, such as sudden fighting, breaking objects, or road rage incidents that the individual later regrets.
  • An irresistible urge to steal items that are not needed (kleptomania), with repeated episodes of shoplifting despite knowing it’s wrong.
  • A fascination with fire-setting or starting fires deliberately (pyromania), accompanied by tension before the act and a sense of relief or gratification afterward.
  • Inability to resist impulses even when the behavior could cause harm – for example, saying something extremely inappropriate or engaging in risky sexual or financial behaviors on a spur of the moment.
  • Noticeable build-up of tension or anxiety right before the impulsive behavior, and a feeling of release or satisfaction immediately after carrying it out.
  • Difficulty planning ahead or considering consequences; the person often acts in the heat of the moment and may seem unable to learn from past negative outcomes.
  • Feelings of guilt or remorse following the impulsive act, yet despite these negative feelings, the person struggles to prevent repeating the behavior during the next urge.
A person staring out a window - YOU Psychiatry Clinic

When to Seek Help

Everyone can be impulsive at times, but if you or someone you care about frequently cannot control aggressive or destructive impulses, it’s time to seek professional help. Signs that help is needed include impulsive behaviors that cause harm (physically, financially, or emotionally) to the person or others, or legal issues such as arrests due to these behaviors. You should consult a mental health professional if these behaviors persist for months and cause significant problems at work, school, or in relationships – for example, frequent fights, job loss, or financial trouble due to impulsivity. It’s especially important to get help if the individual expresses feeling “out of control” or if there are any safety concerns (such as violent outbursts or fire-setting). Early intervention can prevent the behaviors from escalating and help the person develop healthier impulse control.

Treatment Approaches

2. Psychotherapy (Impulse Control Training): Therapy is central to treating impulse control disorders, and many patients benefit from cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or other specialized counseling. In CBT, the individual learns to recognize the thoughts and feelings that precede an impulsive act and develops strategies to delay or prevent the behavior. For example, a patient with intermittent explosive disorder (anger outbursts) might work on deep-breathing techniques and communication skills to use when they feel anger rising, instead of exploding. Those with kleptomania or pyromania may benefit from therapy approaches that increase awareness of their triggers and practice alternative responses to the urge. Telepsychiatry makes therapy highly accessible, allowing for regular sessions that the patient can attend from home (which can be important if the person feels shame or is avoiding public settings due to their behavior). Group therapy or support groups can also be helpful – hearing from others with similar struggles often reduces isolation. In some cases, family therapy is beneficial, especially if relationships have been strained by the impulsive behaviors; family members can learn how to set appropriate boundaries while supporting the individual’s progress.

3. Medication Management: There are no medications specifically approved for impulse control disorders, but psychiatric providers often use medications to manage symptoms or co-occurring conditions. For example, if explosive anger outbursts are a major issue, a provider might prescribe an anticonvulsant mood stabilizer or an SSRI antidepressant, as some studies suggest these can reduce aggression. If the person also has ADHD (common in impulse control issues like conduct disorder), stimulant or non-stimulant ADHD medications can improve attention and reduce impulsivity. In certain cases of severe aggression, a low-dose antipsychotic medication might be considered to help control impulsive rage. It’s also not uncommon to treat underlying mood or anxiety disorders with appropriate medication, which in turn can help improve impulse control. The psychiatric NP/psychiatrist will personalize the medication plan and explain the rationale – for instance, using an SSRI not only for any depressive or obsessive symptoms but also because it might help curb some impulsive urges. With telemedicine, medication follow-ups are convenient: the provider can see the patient more frequently in the early stages to monitor effectiveness and side effects, adjusting the regimen as needed. This close monitoring is important, since finding the right medication can be a trial-and-error process and the patient’s feedback on urges and behavior is crucial.

4. Building Long-Term Strategies and Supports: Treating impulse control disorders isn’t just about stopping one behavior; it’s about helping the person build a more stable life. Our clinic focuses on relapse prevention and skill-building. For instance, the provider might help the patient identify high-risk situations that tend to trigger their impulses (like being in certain social circles that encourage fights or having unstructured free time that leads to mischief) and then develop a plan to navigate or avoid these triggers. Stress management techniques are also emphasized, because stress often lowers impulse control – strategies might include regular exercise, mindfulness meditation, or anger management classes, many of which can be accessed remotely or via app. We also encourage positive outlets: someone with aggressive impulses might channel energy into boxing classes or art therapy; someone with kleptomania might volunteer or engage in hobbies to occupy time and reduce urges. The psychiatric provider helps coordinate these supports and can provide coaching during telehealth sessions on how the patient is implementing these strategies. If legal issues have arisen (for example, court-mandated treatment after an impulsive offense), we assist in providing documentation of treatment and progress. Family involvement can be very valuable here as well: we educate family members on how to reinforce positive behaviors and not inadvertently enable impulsive acts (for example, keeping potentially triggering items like lighters out of reach for a pyromania patient, or calmly praising any successful anger management by a relative with explosive disorder). Over time, with therapy, possible medication, and lifestyle changes, individuals with impulse control disorders can gain better mastery over their actions. While they may always need to be mindful of their triggers, many learn to replace destructive impulses with healthier choices, leading to improved relationships and life stability. Telepsychiatry continues to be an asset in this long-term management, as it provides ongoing access to care – the patient can check in from anywhere to discuss new stressors or challenges, virtually having a “coach” to help maintain the progress they’ve made.

Support & Next Steps | YOU Psychiatry Clinic

At YOU Psychiatry Clinic, we are committed to providing compassionate, expert mental health care. Here’s what you need to know as you take the next step toward wellness.

1. Seeking an Evaluation

If you’re considering psychiatric care, our team is here to guide you. We provide comprehensive evaluations for anxiety, depression, autism spectrum disorder, and other mental health concerns.

2. Insurance & Payment Information

We accept most major insurance plans and offer out-of-network billing options.
Self-pay rates and affordable monthly payment plans are available for those without insurance.
Contact our office for specific coverage details.

3. Schedule An Appointment

Our team is ready to support you. We offer in-person, hybrid, and online psychiatry with immediate intake availability. Reach out to book your initial consultation today.

📍 Clinic Address: 110 North Wacker Drive, Suite 2500, Chicago, IL 60606
📞 Phone: 708-765-6340
📧 Email: admin@youpsychiatryclinic.org
🌐 Fax: 708-273-5527

4. What to Expect During Your First Visit

Our approach includes a detailed discussion of your medical and mental health history, followed by personalized treatment recommendations—whether that involves therapy, medication, or lifestyle adjustments. We pride ourselves on offering a supportive, judgment-free environment where you can feel comfortable and truly heard.

BE WELL, BE YOU ®

BE WELL, BE YOU ®

Subscribe for News, Updates & More Content