Young Adult Issues
Overview
Young adulthood (roughly ages 18-30, spanning late Gen Z and young Millennials) is a period of exciting growth and significant stress. It’s the time when individuals often leave home, pursue higher education or careers, form romantic relationships, and generally transition into independent life. With these new opportunities come new pressures: academic demands, finding one’s career path, financial stress (like student loans or low-paying first jobs), and the social challenges of building one’s own community. It’s also an age where many mental health conditions first emerge or peak – conditions like depression, anxiety, or substance use issues are commonly reported among college students and twenty-somethings. In short, being a young adult can be really hard, even as it’s portrayed as a fun, carefree time. “Young adult issues” refers to the range of emotional and behavioral difficulties that people in this age range might face, from intense self-doubt and loneliness to academic problems or risky behaviors. The good news is that with appropriate support – which might include counseling, skill-building, or sometimes medication – young adults can successfully navigate this formative period and set the foundation for a healthy adulthood.
Signs & Symptoms
- Academic or work difficulties: A young adult struggling mentally may see a sudden drop in academic performance or trouble holding a job. For example, missing classes or assignments, a plummeting GPA, or frequently calling in sick to work can be red flags. This might stem from poor concentration, lack of motivation, or overwhelming stress.
- Mood swings or irritability: It’s common for young adults under strain to experience rapid changes in mood. You might feel okay one moment and then suddenly very anxious, angry, or down the next. Friends or family might notice you have a “short fuse,” snapping or losing your temper easily over minor issues. Alternatively, you may have periods of intense sadness or emptiness that are new for you.
- Loss of motivation and direction: Many young adults with mental health challenges describe “not feeling like myself”. You might lose interest in hobbies you once enjoyed, struggle to get out of bed or attend classes, and generally feel aimless or unmotivated. This isn’t just typical indecision – it’s a pervasive apathy that can signal depression or burnout.
- Social withdrawal: Isolating from friends and family is a key warning sign. You might stop responding to messages, skip social events, or spend most of your time alone in your room or online. Others may describe you as “pulling away.” Young adults dealing with issues like depression or social anxiety often withdraw due to low energy, fear of judgment, or lack of interest in socializing.
- Neglecting self-care: Noticeable changes in basic self-care can be a symptom. Examples include not bathing regularly or poor hygiene, irregular sleep patterns (either insomnia or sleeping excessively), and erratic eating (skipping meals or overeating junk food). You might also see weight changes or a generally disheveled appearance. These changes often reflect internal chaos or depression.
- Risky or unhealthy behaviors: Some young adults cope with stress by turning to substances or other risky behaviors. Signs include increased use of alcohol or drugs, partying extremely hard, or experimenting with substances in a way that’s out of character (or using them to self-medicate anxiety or sadness). Other risky behaviors could be reckless driving, unsafe sexual practices, or spending sprees. These can be both a cry for help and a harmful escape from emotional pain.
- Excessive worry and self-doubt: You may experience persistent anxiety – for instance, constant worry about the future, or intense fear of failing. Some young adults develop panic attacks (sudden bouts of intense fear with physical symptoms like racing heart, sweating) especially under academic or social pressure. There can also be a lot of self-loathing or low self-esteem, with thoughts like “I’m a failure” or “I’m not good enough,” which indicate more than just typical teenage insecurity.
- Suicidal thoughts or self-harm: In more severe cases, a young adult might express or secretly harbor thoughts about death, wishing they weren’t alive, or even make statements like “What’s the point of being here?” Self-harm behaviors (such as cutting) or unexplained injuries might be present as a maladaptive way to cope. Any mention or sign of suicidal thinking is a serious red flag that needs immediate professional attention.

When to Seek Help
If you’re a young adult (or you care about one) and you notice the kinds of signs above lasting more than a couple of weeks, it’s important to seek help. Some level of stress or sadness can be normal in this life stage, but trust your gut – if your feelings are intense, persistent, or getting worse, don’t wait. For example, seek help when anxiety is making it hard to attend classes or social events, or when low mood and lack of motivation persist most days and you can’t shake it. Also, consider reaching out if you feel chronically alone or misunderstood; therapy can provide support that friends/family may not be equipped to give. Certainly, if there are any thoughts of self-harm, suicide, or if you’re using substances in an unhealthy way, get help immediately – these are urgent signals. It’s worth noting that young adults sometimes avoid seeking help out of fear or not knowing where to start. But many colleges and communities have resources specifically for people your age. Therapy and even just an initial consultation can clarify whether what you’re experiencing is something that might resolve on its own or if it’s part of a treatable mental health condition. In short, if you’re not functioning at your best and it’s been a little while, reach out – doing so in your youth can set you on a healthier course for years to come, rather than letting issues deepen.
Treatment Approaches
1. Youth-Friendly Counseling: It’s crucial that therapy for young adults feels relatable and respectful of their unique challenges. Our providers are trained to connect with younger clients in a non-judgmental way. In sessions (via secure video or in-person), we encourage you to voice whatever is on your mind – school pressure, relationship drama, identity questions, or family conflicts. We often use a mix of approaches: Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to tackle negative thought patterns and build healthier behaviors, and elements of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) or mindfulness to help with emotional regulation if mood swings or impulsivity are issues. For example, a young adult with intense emotions might learn DBT skills like distress tolerance (safe coping in the moment) or mindfulness techniques to stay present. We also incorporate practical coaching, like study skills or time management for academic issues, if needed. Teletherapy can be a game-changer for young adults – it’s flexible around class/work schedules and can be done from the privacy of your dorm or apartment, which often lowers the barrier to entry for getting help.
2. Family Involvement (if appropriate): Depending on your situation, involving family members or significant others can be beneficial. Many young adults are navigating independence from their parents, which can strain those relationships. Family therapy sessions (even just a few) might help improve communication – for instance, helping parents understand depression isn’t “laziness,” or helping you assert boundaries with family in a healthy way. On the other hand, if family conflict isn’t a major factor or you’re living far from home, therapy can focus solely on you. But we’ll ensure you have a support network: if you feel isolated, a therapist might encourage and guide you to build connections, perhaps by joining clubs or support groups (we might say, “How about we brainstorm ways for you to meet people who share your interests?”). For issues like substance use or eating disorders that often involve family dynamics, a family-inclusive approach can improve outcomes. Through telehealth, we can even loop in a parent or family member from another city for a session if you consent – technology makes it easier to get everyone on the same page to support you.
3. Skills for Independence: Part of transitioning to adulthood is learning life skills that keep you mentally healthy. Therapy often includes a bit of life coaching. We can work on things like structuring your day (helping you create routines to manage school/work and self-care), budgeting and managing finances stress (financial strain is huge for young adults, so learning to plan can reduce anxiety), and conflict resolution skills for roommates or dating relationships. If you have ADHD or just find organization hard, we’ll teach strategies to manage time and tasks so you feel less overwhelmed. For social anxiety or shyness, therapy might set small goals like initiating one conversation a day and gradually expanding your comfort zone. Essentially, we help you practice the “adulting” skills that schools often don’t – everything from scheduling doctor appointments to cooking basic healthy meals – because being overwhelmed by these responsibilities can underlie a lot of young adult stress. Mastering these practical skills builds confidence, which in turn boosts mental health. You’ll feel more capable handling life on your own, which eases the anxiety of independence.
4. Medication and Holistic Health: If therapy and lifestyle adjustments aren’t fully addressing your needs, we may discuss medication. Many mental health conditions manifest in young adulthood – for example, it’s not uncommon to start an antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication in your late teens or twenties if depression or panic attacks become significant. Our psychiatric providers will do a careful evaluation of your symptoms, history, and preferences. For instance, if you have major depression that’s making it hard to get out of bed or go to class, an antidepressant can be a useful tool to help you function while therapy does its work. Or if you have ADHD affecting your studies, a stimulant or non-stimulant ADHD medication might be appropriate alongside behavioral strategies. We always weigh the pros and cons and monitor closely – young adults may be more sensitive to side effects or have concerns about medications, and we take those seriously. Additionally, we emphasize holistic health: we’ll talk about sleep hygiene, exercise, and nutrition because these have a huge impact on mood and energy at any age (e.g., lack of sleep or poor diet can mimic or worsen depression/anxiety). We might encourage moderate exercise or joining a physical activity group for both mood benefits and social connection. If substance use has crept in, we’ll address that too – possibly involving substance-specific counseling or programs, since self-medication is common but ultimately harmful. Through telehealth check-ins, we can keep tabs on how all these pieces are coming together. The goal is to create a balanced plan: maybe you’re on a low-dose SSRI for anxiety, seeing a therapist biweekly to learn coping skills, attending a young adult support group on campus, and you’ve started doing yoga or hitting the gym. That kind of comprehensive approach helps you as a whole person, not just a diagnosis. Over time, as you grow into your confidence and stability, some supports (like medication) might be tapered off, while others (like exercise and coping skills) become lifelong tools you carry into full adulthood. Our aim is to help you not only get through the challenges of your twenties, but to equip you with mental wellness habits that set the stage for a healthy life ahead.
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